Kiss debate divides Israel

Forcible smooch leads to conviction of former justice minister

By Laurie Copans
February 4, 2007

Jerusalem - Some Israelis said it was an overreaction to convict a former cabinet member of sexual misconduct for forcibly kissing a female soldier.

Others thought it's about time a society that reveres military-style machismo starts reining in its men.

Former Justice Minister Haim Ramon was found guilty Wednesday after a trial that focused attention on changing norms in Israel at a time when its president is facing much more serious sexual charges.

"Good morning to a new standard," wrote commentator Tali Lipkin-Shahak in the daily newspaper Maariv on Thursday. "This is a process of internalization, of a deep understanding of the basic value of liberty, the liberty of a woman's body and soul."

Few Protested

Israel has a history of winking at behaviour linked to its military and the tough-guy mind-set that goes with it. For years, few protested the assumption that top officials were taking advantage of women, especially those in their offices or under their command.

But this has begun to change in recent years, with several senior army officers charged with sexual misconduct as women began asserting their rights.

Former Defence Minister Yitzhak Mordechai, a retired general, was convicted in 2001 in two cases of sexual assault.

Now President Moshe Katsav, whose duties are largely ceremonial, is facing rape charges and other serious allegations over his dealings with women in his office.

Ramon was accused by a female soldier who worked in the prime minister's office of kissing her against her will. She is known only as "H" since Israeli law prohibits publishing the names of victims of sexual crimes.

"H" charged that Ramon grabbed her chin, kissed her and forced his tongue through her lips after she had hugged him while posing for a picture.

Ramon countered that she flirted with him and invited the kiss.

A three-judge panel convicted Ramon, 56, of sexual misconduct, rejecting all his claims. He faces up to three years in prison.

"There are some lines that cannot be crossed," said Judge Hayuta Kochan.

"This was not a kiss of affection. This has all the elements of sexual crime," she said.

Just Posed

His accuser told Israel's Channel 10 after the verdict that she never flirted with Ramon, although she had just posed with him, at her request, for two pictures with their arms around each other.

"You understand the gap between us? He's eight years older than my father. There is no chance I could look at him and say that I would go out with him, that I could hit on him," she said.

Many Israelis supported the conviction, feeling that overzealous Israeli men might finally learn their lesson.

But many others, men and women alike, felt "H" had gone too far, perhaps only out of a desire to ruin Ramon.

"This is too much. He just tried to kiss her," said Maya Ish-Shalom, a 19-year-old soldier, as her friend nodded her head in agreement.

Many media commentators agreed with them.

"This issue is worthy of public discussion on the moral level, not on the level of legal deliberations, and certainly not court proceedings," wrote Ben-Dror Yemini in Maariv.


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