The Iraq War at its most extreme had Abu Ghraib and its photos of naked Iraqi
prisoners.
Catholic author Patrick Madrid said his first thought on seeing the photos was
that Americans shouldn't be surprised: "The pornography chickens are coming
home to roost."
Today, pornography is sold at most base exchanges (BXs) in the United States.
It's part of a $57-billion-a-year worldwide industry. Porn revenue is larger
than the combined revenues of all professional football, baseball and
basketball franchises, according to the Internet Filter Review. In the United
States, revenue from pornography ($12 billion a year) far exceeds the combined
revenues of the three major television networks - ABC, CBS and NBC ($6.2
billion).
In Iraq, alcohol and pornography - including Internet porn - are banned for
enlisted personnel out of sensitivity to adherents of the country's dominant
religion, Islam. But despite the prohibitions and blocking software on military
computers, Father Mark Reilly, who served as a Marine chaplain in Iraq this
year, said increasing numbers of both men and women serving in Iraq have access
to porn, and have become addicted.
"I don't think I've ever been confronted as much face-to-face with men and
women - in and out of the confessional - saying, 'I'm addicted to porn and I
don't know how to get out of it,'" Father Reilly said. "They're looking for a
life preserver. It's wrecking their marriages. Like any addiction, they lose
control."
British historian Joanna Bourke said that at their worst, pornography causes
imitative behavior like the Abu Ghraib photos - made by and for porn addicts.
"The abuse is performed for the camera," she wrote in the London newspaper
Guardian. "These obscene images have a counterpart in the worst, non-consensual
sadomasochistic pornography.
Rochelle Gurstein in The New Republic said that the Abu Ghraib photos "speak to
the coercive and brutalizing nature of the pornographic imagination so
prevalent in our world today."
The conditions soldiers must endure make them more susceptible to porn
addiction, said Steve Wood, president of the Family Life Center in Port
Charlotte, Florida.
Wood, a convert who has written about breaking addiction to porn, said the
worst conditions to fuel an addiction are stress, isolation from family and
sleep deprivation.
"If some Marine was out there on the front lines and got wounded, vast
resources of the United States would be mobilized to bring him to health," he
said. "Here, he's in mortal sin, which endangers not the body, but the soul for
eternity, and he's suffering in silence. These guys are hurting - good guys who
want to be good Catholic men and husbands and fathers - but get hooked on this
and can't find their way out."
Archbishop Edwin O'Brien, who leads the US military archdiocese, told the
National Catholic Register that chaplains' guidance in and out of the
confessional is invaluable.
"They can counsel - whether it's one-on-one or whether it's in the sacramental
realm," he said. "But chaplains have the added opportunity to speak publicly
about it and form policy. They have access to the commander, who sets
regulations, and I think most commanders are leery of the spread of
pornography."
Chaplains can help influence "what is sold in the BX, what's allowed in a
public space, an office or a barracks, and I think a chaplain can have great
leverage here," the archbishop said. Wood, who served in the Navy during the
late 1960s, said most pornography addicts have internal scars - usually from
childhood.
"High numbers of people - both men and women - involved in pornography have
been sexually abused as children," he explained. "It could be an oppressive,
cruel father or abuse when they were young, a breakup of parents' marriage -
the type of thing that could cause depression and/or internal struggles in any
average person.
"When you start dabbling in pornography, it becomes like an aspirin relieving
that internal pain," he said. But a stronger dose of pornography will be
necessary to "medicate" the next time. The key to breaking the addiction, he
said, is to first go to confession, then seek professional counseling for the
internal pain and the addiction.
The Catechism of the Catholic Church teaches that any association with
pornography is a grave sin. "It does grave injury to the dignity of its
participants (actors, vendors, the public), since each one becomes an object of
base pleasure and illicit profit for others. It immerses all who are involved
in the illusion of a fantasy world. It is a grave offense" (No. 2354).
Barry Marteson is so ashamed of his own pornography use that he didn't want his
real name used for this story.
"It's humiliating and certainly one of the seven deadly sins," said the
Catholic former Marine.
Marteson was a child when he began looking at discarded magazines his father
owned. Being a Marine in the 1970s didn't help.
"Some of the guys just got back from Guantanamo Bay and were talking about 'how
great the chicks were' down there," he said. "All these guys were 18 and I'm
23. I knew better, but I like to be one of the boys, so we would get drunk and
go out to the X-rated film parlors" and strip clubs.
Now Marteson's son is serving in Iraq and is also dealing with pornography
addiction. Marteson finally reached a point where he knew he needed help.
"It became really obvious five years ago that it's bigger than me," he said. "I
was getting it in the house over the Internet and it was truly addictive to the
point where I'm panicked. I'm screaming and I'm crying."
After years of going to confession and spiritual counseling, he said he's
having some success. After a recent trip to the airport, he had some time to
kill in an area where he used to frequent strip clubs. When he made it home
without stopping, he said he knew he was on the right path.
"It was hardly worth writing home about, but I put a note in my book about it,"
he said. "It's grace. There was an incredible amount of grace. I don't know
that I want to cry, but I just feel giddy!"
