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Double standards on sexual humiliation

By Miranda Husain
September 14, 2004

The Muslim world often views the western woman as nothing more than a sex object. The western world thinks of the Muslim man as the oppressor of women. And here in this one picture, we have the western woman depicted as the oppressor of the Muslim man.

At least one facet of the clash between Islam and the West has to do with — not fundamentalism and liberalism but — preconceptions and stereotypes about each other’s sexual morality and attitude to sex. Seen through Muslim eyes, the West represents the epitome of sexual decadence and depravity. The West, for its part, sees the Muslim world as displaying a selective piety that fails to speak out against the oppression of women.

The Abu Ghraib prisoner abuse scandal may have highlighted this clash of perceptions better than any other recent event.

When the first pictures from inside the Iraqi prison came to light on April 29, 2004, the international community, including the US, was united in condemning the atrocities. The images bore testimony to the fact that respect for the rule of law had been abandoned and that the Third Geneva Convention Relative to the Treatment of Prisoners of War had been badly violated.

Once the first shock was absorbed, however, outrage from different parts of the world began to focus on different aspects of the systematic abuse of prisoners. Many in the West, especially those opposed to the war, focused on the gross violation of human rights of those detained. They saw as substantiated their claims that the illegal war had done nothing to ‘liberate’ the people of Iraq; the occupiers were treating the Iraqi people no better than the Saddam regime had done.

Many in the Muslim world were appalled at the visual image of their weakness and humiliation at the hands of the western invader. As more pictures and more reports became public about the nature of the abuse, the focus began to shift to the almost pornographic nature of the abuse. Thus, the pictures began to be viewed through the prism of an old stereotype; as evidence of western decadence and sexual depravity. To a certain extent, the issue came even to overshadow the fact of gross human rights violations committed in the name of liberating Iraq.

This is not an attempt at trivialising what these pictures represented. But I do find it interesting that Muslim reaction concentrated so much on the sexual content of the abuse. Torture is, after all, torture. Irrespective of whether it takes the form of cutting the victims’ limbs or placing them in a sexually humiliating position, it causes pain to the victim and affords a certain amount of perverse pleasure to the torturer. Is sexual humiliation considered a greater crime on the premise that it gives the abuser greater pleasure? Or is the victim’ shame and suffering more deeply felt if his faith strongly rejects sexual immorality?

But if the West is regarded as indulging and promoting a decadent and immoral culture, then, to be blunt, why the shock? I do not mean that there is no justification here for outrage, just that if we insist on associating western culture with sexual depravity, then surely there is an argument of expecting nothing better from the West. So why did we focus our outrage on this aspect? Could it be that we actually expect the West to adhere to a higher moral code than we are prepared to give it credit for? Especially in dealing with Muslims?

In a recent article “A culture of lawlessness”, former prime minister Benazir Bhutto points out that “[t]here are other Abu Ghraibs around the world that often go unnoticed. Islamabad is one of the places in the world where torture is used as a method of interrogation despite it being illegal”. Indeed, according to Amnesty International’s 2003 report on Pakistan, at least 26 people died in police custody during the year 2002 as a direct result of torture. So it seems that with regard to violation of the rights of the detained, state institutions in Pakistan fare no better than those responsible for the Abu Ghraib atrocities. But can Pakistan hold its head high when it comes to incidents of subjecting citizens to sexual humiliation?

It would seem that the answer is, no. And this is where there is justification for Pakistan, as a Muslim nation, being stereotyped in the west as a Muslim society institutionalising the oppression of women. Women are often used as bargaining chips to settle feuds. They can be stripped naked and paraded in the streets. They can be gang-raped on the orders of tribal elders to serve the ends of ‘justice’. The female child can often be handed over in marriage to a much older man to repay a family debt. And while it would be unfair to allege that no action is ever taken against the perpetrators of such justice, one does not notice the kind of outrage voiced against the sexual humiliation of Iraqi prisoners.

Can it be argued that sexual humiliation of Muslims is more grave if the victims happen to be men or if the perpetrators are western ‘infidels’?

On the other hand, could it be that just as we often like to judge the West by our own perceived notions of its culture of decadence and depravity, the West limits its perception of Muslim societies to the oppression of women? If this is indeed the case, it may well explain the intense shock over one of the Abu Ghraib pictures above all others, especially in this part of the word. Remember the image of a female US soldier, Lyndie England, who has a semi-naked Iraqi detainee on a leash at her feet. Many in the Muslim world view the western woman as no more than a sex object. Many in the western world perceive the Muslim man as an oppressor of women. And here in this one picture, we have the western woman depicted as the oppressor of the Muslim man.

The world was right to condemn the Abu Ghraib atrocities as a gross human rights violation that must never again be allowed to take place. The White House did its best to distance itself from the scandal, telling the whole world that this is not what America stands for.

Yet the sad fact remains that while America publicly condemned the sexual humiliation of Muslim men, we, in the Muslim world, have still not found the moral courage to stand up and condemn the sexual humiliation of women in Muslim societies.

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