"If I had to use one word to describe the charms of married women, that word
would have to be 'experience.' Nurturing the maternal instincts is not the only
growth that motherhood brings about," Takahashi, who has directed 57 adult
movies with a "married woman" theme, tells Spa! "You can see in the bed scenes
how these women know the need to show concern for others. Physically and
mentally, they leave young women for dead."
Takahashi says married women like the ones who appear in his movies are close
to the perfect woman.
"I really try to always listen to what women are telling me. For every one
point I bring up, I try to hear 10 things the other person has to say. I ask
them to explain things they've talked about, show some concern for what's
bothering them and then listen to their gripes about kids and husbands."
Takahashi says that despite rumors to the contrary most married women in
extramarital affairs are prepared to talk about their families.
"I'd say women over 35 in particular are really starved for conversation.
Couples tend to stop conversing after however many years of marriage. If you do
maintain a decent conversation, it naturally tends to veer toward the husband
and kids. I try to make the conversation interesting enough to give the women a
chance to forget about their husbands," Takahashi tells Spa! "Kisses are really
important, too. Most of these women haven't been loved for a long time."
While undoubtedly starved for conversation, that's apparently not the only
thing married women appearing in Takahashi's videos are yearning for.
"Husbands couldn't be bothered with a lot of the women, so it's really
essential to spend a lot of time with them both before and after the act," the
dirty director says. "You've really got to be accommodating."
A look through Takahashi's movies on married women and a common trait soon
becomes apparent - even though they're adult movies, there's actually
considerably more talking the talk than there is walking the walk, so to speak.
"Depending on the work, there might be as many as three sex scenes or as few as
one," the auteur of amorousities tells Spa! "It really doesn't matter how many
times there are. It all comes down to the reality."
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