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Virgins shed 'psychological panties'
By Mark Schreiber
May 16, 2004
"Miss A" had a predicament: She was already 31 and still inexperienced in the
ways of corporeal love -- a state of affairs she attributed to her disgust with
a philandering father and two elder sisters who conducted affairs with their
bosses at work.
Unable to accept celibacy any longer, A boarded the shinkansen to Tokyo for a
prearranged rendezvous with "Mr. B," who had been introduced to her by a
sex-counseling service. She was escorted to a nearby restaurant for dinner.
After picking nervously at her omelet with rice -- accompanied by several
glasses of wine to fortify herself -- she and the gentleman took a taxi to a
"love hotel" in the secluded Yushima district, whereupon, shortly thereafter, A
willingly gave up her virginity.
Kim Myung Gun, author, lecturer on sexual anthropology at Wako University and
professional sex counselor, tells Dacapo that virgins like A have been girding
their loins for defloration sessions at the rate of about six a month since he
initiated such services last autumn.
"They tend to be around 30," says Kim. "The youngest so far was 21, and the
oldest, 46 -- no wait, the other day we helped a woman from Fukuoka -- she was
55.
" 'I've already had my menopause, so I don't have to worry about getting
pregnant' she told me, 'I can now do it with abandon.' "
The male volunteers who Kim introduces to these women are mostly businessmen or
journalists. They do not charge for their services.
"Our role is to 'embrace the heart' of our counterpart," explains B, who is in
his 40s. "To achieve this, we must always work to refine our techniques, saying
words that will free her both in body and spirit. Our counterpart hasn't been
able to find what she's seeking; our greatest role is to help her slip off her
'psychological panties,' so to speak -- to make her feel comfortable."
On the surface, the virgins seeking Kim's help do not differ appreciably from
other females.
"In terms of their looks and bearing they're not at all unattractive," Kim
notes. "But many have suffered some trauma during puberty, or had it drilled
into their heads by their mothers that sex was bad. Some might have a complex
about their bodies, thinking their breasts are too small, or that they have too
much body hair. Others simply fail to comprehend males' sexual desires. Their
boyfriends ask for sex, but they are repulsed by what they perceive as
unbridled lust."
"Over the past decade or so, it's been said women have been liberated, but I
don't think that's the case at all," observes B. "Many women try sex once and
then psychologically regress, or remain aloof from others. And many males lack
the sensitivity to deal with such women."
Did the earth, Dacapo wonders, move for Miss A during her initiation into sex?
Perhaps not; but once it was over, she felt a sense of overwhelming relief. In
fact, she and B are now a pair. This, says B, is not unusual; the women he's
deflowered are so enthusiastic he's regularly called back for encores --
sometimes with as many as four ladies per day. Keeping them content, it seems,
has become a burdensome task.
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