'Balzac' unfulfilling sex in the city of Moscow

By Sophia Kishkovsky
January 9, 2006

Moscow - At first glance, it is very much a Slavic "Sex and the City." Four attractive, well-dressed girlfriends meet at chic cafes to kvetch about life, love and sex.

But as much as modern-day Moscow can seem like New York, what with fast-paced lifestyles, pressure-cooker careers and complicated relationships, Vera, Alla, Sonia and Yulia are not quite Carrie, Miranda, Samantha and Charlotte.

"Balzac Age, or All Men Are Bast" (as in bastards; the Russian short form is common here), a popular television program whose second season just began, may be a comedy about sex in a big city, but many aspects of the lives of its female leads might be a bit of a shock to the quartet from Manhattan.

"'Sex and the City' is full of the glamour, chic, splendor and beauty of New York," said Alika Smekhova, who plays Sonia, a widowed gold digger on the prowl for yet another rich, old husband. "Our heroines, like our countrywomen, are deprived of glamour," she added, though Sonia lives in a duplex - luxurious lodgings in this city of unaffordable apartments.

Vera has a teenage daughter, a product of the Soviet practice of marriage at a very young age. She and Yulia live with their mothers, as does Vera's boyfriend, Zhan, reflecting the overhang of Communist-era housing shortages and Moscow's sky-high real-estate prices.

Yulia, a nymphomaniac who is unemployed, is desperately trying to land a husband since her father, who supported her, has left her mother for a woman younger than Yulia. Vera finds out that Zhan is married to a woman he says he wed fraudulently to provide her with the residence permit needed for even Russian citizens to live in Moscow.

Alla, a high-powered lawyer with a fetish for male strippers and a fear of commitment, has some of Samantha's traits. But Lada Dance, the pop star turned actress who plays her, is equally well aware of what differentiates the series from "Sex and the City" and what unites the two shows.

"It's about our life, about our mentality," she said. "We have our friendship between women. They have theirs. It's different. The only thing is that it turns out that men both here and there are bast," she added.

At first Sonia enjoys life as a widow, taking young lovers for pleasure, but when the money runs out she becomes a call girl to an oligarch who is sick of his Barbie-doll wife. She has sex with him in a dark, empty apartment, without seeing his face, and he begins to confide in her.

Harking back to Dostoyevsky's prostitute with a heart of gold and reflecting the attitude of many Russian women toward their men, Sonia begins to pity her lonely client. In a modern twist, she also confesses to Vera - who is a psychotherapist and, like the Carrie Bradshaw character on "Sex and the City," provides the voice-over for the show - that she has never enjoyed sex so much as this anonymous kind for money.

In the episode broadcast Monday, Sonia ends up being driven to drink and, her face bruised after a drunken fall, is saved by her girlfriends, who listen to her lamentations. "I'm 35 and I have neither children nor a husband nor a job," she cries. "It's all over. All that's left is a lonely old age."

Yulia tries to comfort her, then cries when Sonia points out that she is in the same boat. Alla hires male strippers to clean up the apartment, then all the girlfriends get depressed because they realize that if they were young and desirable, men would clean up for them for nothing.

But the series nonetheless reflects contemporary Russian realities. Women, especially in Moscow, have become engines of a growing market economy and are putting off marriage. Yet women over 30 are often regarded as aging, if not old; even those who have their first child in their late 20s are categorized as coming late to motherhood. Indeed, the show's name, "Balzac Age," refers to Honore de Balzac's novel "A Woman of Thirty" and is the polite Russian way of referring to a woman who is getting on in years.

These mores have long placed men in a privileged position in relationships. So did the Soviet Union's historical legacy of war, repression and alcoholism, which has left Russia, where men live to an average age of about 59, with an acute shortage of males, many of whom are raised and spoiled by single mothers.

"We have completely different relations between men and women," said Maksim Stishov, the scriptwriter and a producer of "Balzac Age." "We have fewer men, many fewer men than women. This affects relations of women with each other and with men."

Dmitry Fiks, the director and co-producer, is even more blunt. "We have infantile men," he said. But he added the goal of the series was not to roast them but to poke fun at their weaknesses. "We love them and make them funny," he said. "They are very gentle and touching, but all slight imbeciles."

The New York Times


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